Runaway Bride? Yes. Golden Girl? Yes ... until I ran away!

🔎Mermaid's Tale Love starts in faraway Africa @15/16, but Danger looms!











🔎OctoberBreast Cancer MonthHere's a Low-Carb BreastCancer LoveStory (mine, Part-1 "Jenny & Ian") Breast Cancer often ends love-stories prematurely ... so sad, cruel!






🔎OctoberBreast Cancer MonthHere's a Low-Carb BreastCancer LoveStory (mine, Part-2 "Meet Charles") The 1st 1/3rd of the video is a brief recap, then a new story starts







🔎OctoberBreast Cancer MonthHere's a Low-Carb BreastCancer LoveStory (mine, Part-3 "Redemption") The 1st 1/3rd of the video is a brief recap, then a new story starts








🔎OctoberBreast Cancer MonthHere's a Low-Carb BreastCancer LoveStory (mine, Part-4 "Time to Choose") 1st part of the video is a brief recap, then a new story starts



Low-Carb BreastCancer LoveStory (mine, Part-5 "London Love-Story?")
 **** COMING SOON ****Watch this Space






🔎OctoberBreast Cancer MonthHere's a Low-Carb BreastCancer LoveStory (mine, Part-6 "Runaway Bride") 1st 1/3rd of this video is a brief recap, then a new story starts!









🔎October Breast Cancer Awareness 2 Breast Cancer Love Stories Part-7 










🔎OctoberBreast Cancer Awareness Month ... I'm HYPER-Aware!










🔎OctoberBreast Cancer Awareness Month for 50y I had no idea!




🔎1:Nightmare Jennifer Time to Choose only 1 (of 2) Women...to Love & Marry!








🔎2:Nightmare Jen & Jenny We insist that you Choose one of us to Love & Marry!








🔎3:Nightmare JenniferJen & Jenny merge into Jennifer ... we run far, far away!
"Ding, dong the Witch is dead! The Wicked old Witch is Dead, is Dead!" 24-Sept 2024, it's finally over!









🔎Introduction "Runaway Bride" ==> Teaser 1st of 2 Introduction Videos (Part-2 Below it)

🔎Background to ...Runaway Bride Part-2 of the Introduction videos (Below)







🔎The 10 short videos (below) explain How we met and Why I became a Runaway Bride (Novels 1,7,8)






🔎[2]Lost & Found "Serendipity" (Her & His versions: Finally they meet & talk, Dec '71)






🔎[3]My Little Mermaid's Synopsis of how we met in Dec of 1971 (Video Below)








🔎Daddy's Girl? - Yes, until I said "NO" to mother! 



🔎Part-1: Outcast (VIDEO Below)






6 forced farewells later, fast forward from Christmas 1971 to Christmas of 1978 in Snowy Canada
🔎The 7th (Final) Forced Farewell was by far the cruelest of all!  (VIDEO Below)
The Battle Lines were drawn: Mother demanded Jennifer stay with her in Canada, not return to her Fiancé in Africa! 















🔎Part-4a: Triumphant (Jennifer) [Below it is video "Triumphant (Ian)"]
🔎Part-4b: Triumphant (Ian) + Maybe Triumphant Genevieve & Charl?






🔎Part-5: Euphoria - The Danger's over, isn't it? Oh my, that would have been nice!







🔎   Africa's Snow-White Jealousy made her Mother very Nasty! Teaser below

  



🔎Africa's Snow-White How the Author Chose a Credible Title Teaser below








🔎Our Missing Photo's Mystery Background *NEW*















🔎 Runaway Bride Extended Trailer Based on a True Story, mine





🔎 Life lived "Constantly on the Run" can be quite an Adventure!
The last 52y played out over 3 continents (with a wedding using Jen's Maiden names, in each) - 4 countries!





🔎 52 years of Love: "Hallelujah" Part-1 (This Project took me way out of my "Comfort Zone"!)




🔎Mother-in-law: "I'll forget I ever had her! I'll Erase Jenny's childhood - like she never existed!"
Me (1993): "Really? Not if I can help it! Here, you mean old Witch, Hold my Beer!
" (in progress)
🔎 52 years of Love: "Rescuing Jen's past" Part-2 (This Project's been ongoing for 30+ years!)
We're 67 now. Jen's birth-mother waged war against us, unabated, since our late teens.
Jen's birth-mother spent almost 5 decades trying to punish her for not letting her control her life, for Jen secretly planning her escape from mother in Canada back to Cape Town at age 22, to marry me in 1979. Her tactic? Isolate Jen from her entire family, for everyone to shun her. Sadly that worked, though at first we found ways of her seeing at least her dad occasionally, but by 1994, Jen was totally cutoff from everyone. However, in Aug 1997 Jen had 1 day (just 1 day!) with her dad who'd paid us a surprise visit. She reconciled with her dad, led him to the Lord with tears in his eyes and a beer in his hands, both getting to say: "I love you", "Please forgive me", "Goodbye, as it's likely we'll never be allowed to meet again". That's what happened, though there was 1 surprise phone call, Father's day years later. Jen also reconnected with some cousins and later, in 2023 with her sister shortly before her death from breast cancer at 62. Her dad died during Covid, in July 2021, almost 92. Mother and sister conspired to keep that a secret from Jen. A cousin told Jen 7 months later, around what would have been her dad's 92nd birthday. That's left mother alone, with no remaining allies, bitter, cursing Jen for outlasting her and reconnecting with her extended family, which she, in her paranoia, became increasingly isolated from in an effort to "punish" them too for not rejecting Jen as she'd demanded. The very outcome she'd worked so hard towards, to punish & isolate Jen, deservedly became her fate! Jennifer's successfully survived 2 separate Breast Cancers since age 61 (contralateral) She's now "the last one left standing" at 67 in 2024, successfully staring down mother, outlasting her! What's more, we've been married for 44 years. For 52+ years we've enjoyed a close, warm (continuously challenged) love story. Thankfully, as we start the last 1/3rd of our lives, the self appointed relentless enemy of our love, the evil wannabe Snow-White queen-mother, is finally gone ... vanquished. We're both relieved!






🔎 52 years of Love: "Je t'aime!" Part-3 (Reliving the Intoxicating Euphoria of Young Love)






🔎Jennifer's Surprise (Mercedes) Dream Date Part-4 (Remember Ian makes all Videos!)
PS. That's why I'm always beautiful & my ex-mother's a Witch (as in real-life she is) and a bitter, spiteful old crone







🔎Jennifer's 2 Decades long Struggle with Depression (Remember Ian makes all the Videos!)
PS. That's why I'm always beautiful & my ex-mother's a Witch (as in real-life she is) and a bitter, spiteful old crone








🔎My Small, Happy, Fun Student Wedding had a few Hidden Surprises!





🔎Our Small, Low-Budget Student Wedding was Memorable, Happy, Fun!




🔎 Wedding Mysteries#2 Dec '23 update: Almost the full story!
🔎 Runaway Bride: "Footprints in the Snow"




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Part-6: The 300 year old French Prequel to our Love-Story?





🔎Soul-Mates? 2 Connected Love-stories? Research+DNA+Other Evidence shows it's Possible!




🔎Family Tree Data+DNA+Circumstantial Evidence Shows the 2 love-stories are likely connected!

🔎Hidden for 50 years! Wedding Secrets Finally Revealed to us





🔎Jennifer's Foreword Video Below As you watch this story unfold, remember Ian makes all Videos!



🔎Jennifer's Disclaimer (As you watch this story unfold, remember Ian makes all of these Videos!)
PS. That's why I'm always beautiful & my ex-mother's a Witch (as in real-life she is) and a bitter, spiteful old crone




🔎Part-7: Finally Freedom! (How we escaped from the Queen forever!)













🔎Part-8: Victory - Though the "Queen" has yet to concede defeat!



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Viewing these events in context (5 videos below)
Miraculous cure of my 20y struggle with Depression (which started when I said "No, Mother, it's my life!") Video Below
Extended look at the Miraculous cure from my 2 Decades Struggle with Disabling Depression Video Below



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From Golden Girl to Runaway Bride (Mother's "Yes-Girl" Finally Says "No, Mother!")






❤ 
PS. I love you!

🔎Falling in Love with a Narcissistic Mother's Designated "Golden Girl"? High Risks & Rewards!



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What happens when Teen-Fantasy meets Mother's Cold, Harsh, Cruel Reality?








🔎 Part-9: "If you love Jenny ... You'll let her go!"






🔎 Part-10: Liberating Jennifer from the Queen





🔎 Part-11: Stolen Childhoods & Lost Photos Recovered!








🔎Part-12:What if SnowWhite's mother is "Mom"?





🔎Snow-White & Rose-Red (Part-1)
Mother's "Golden-girl" & Mother's Designated "Scapegoat"









🔎Snow-White & Rose-Red (Part-2)
Obituary: Farewell little sister, RIP mother's "Scapegoat"








🔎Snow-White & Rose-Red (Parts-3,4)
Final VICTORY: Cold...Cold! an Emotional spine-chilling Phone call










🔎Snow-White & Rose-Red (Parts-5,6,7)

Farewell, until we meet again in our Forever Home







🔎 "Mother" = Queen Jezebel or Lady Macbeth?
(This Video has 3 rather startling videos/chapters within it, so keep watching till the very end!)





🔎Summer 1997 - 1 Final, Precious day with dad
Dad died in 2020, during COVID, 24y later. Mother forbade him from visiting me again. Sadly he obeyed her.
(BUT this Tumultuous, Victorious, Special video, has a surprise happy ending, so keep watching till the very end!)









🔎Mother-in-law: "I'll forget I ever had her! I'll Erase Jenny's entire childhood! It will be like she never existed!"
Me (1993): "Oh Really? Well, not if I can help it! Here, you mean old Witch ... Hold my Beer!
" (Still in Progress)
🔎 52 years of Love: "Restoring Jen's stolen past" (This Project's been ongoing for 30+ years!)
We're 67 now in 2024. Jen's birth-mother waged war against us, unabated, from when we were 20.
Jen's birth-mother spent almost 5 decades trying to punish her for not letting her control her life, for Jen secretly planning her escape from mother in Canada back to Cape Town at age 22, to marry me in 1979. Her tactic was to isolate Jen from her entire family, for everyone to shun her. Sadly that worked, though at first we found ways of her seeing at least her dad occasionally, but by 1994, Jen was totally cutoff from everyone. However, in Aug 1997 Jen had 1 day (just one day!) with her dad who'd paid us a surprise visit. She reconciled with her dad, led him to the Lord with tears in his eyes and a beer in his hands, both getting to say: "I love you", "Please forgive me", "Goodbye, as it's likely we'll never be allowed to meet again". That's what happened, though there was one surprise phone call on Father's day years later. Meanwhile, I asked him for 1 last favor, to find the hidden box of photos of Jen, and send them to me. He did. His wife was furious, demanding them back! I simply said "You'd said you'll forget you ever had Jennifer, so other than for reasons of cruelty, I fail to see why you'd want them? So NO, I have them, and you'll never get them back - till you genuinely change!" That's never happened. Those hidden photos account for about half of the photos in this video. Jen also reconnected with some cousins and later, in 2023 with her sister shortly before her death from breast cancer at age 62. Her dad died during Covid, in July 2021, at age 92, and mother and sister conspired to keep that a secret from Jen. A cousin told Jen 7 months later, around what would have been her dad's 92nd birthday. That's left mother all alone, with no remaining allies, bitter, cursing Jen for outlasting her and reconnecting with her extended family, which she, in her paranoia, became increasingly isolated from in an effort to "punish" them too for not rejecting Jen as she'd demanded. So the very outcome she'd worked so hard towards, to punish & isolate Jen, deservedly became her fate. Jennifer's successfully survived 2 separate Breast Cancers since age 61 (contralateral) She's now "the last one left standing" at 67 in 2024, successfully staring down mother, outlasting her! What's more, she's been married to me for 45 years. For 52+ years we've enjoyed a close, warm (though continuously challenged) love story. Thankfully, as we start the last 1/3rd of our lives, the self appointed relentless enemy of our love, the evil Snow-White queen-mother, 93, is still alive in 2024, her memory fading. Soon she'll forget whom to hate/curse. Satirically, as she'd threatened, she'll forget she ever had Jennifer, though till recently, she couldn't forget, just the opposite, she's obsessed about Jen.






🔎The King, Prince, Knight & Dad - Who's who?






🔎 Breast Cancer: I was pre-destined to get BC in my 60's. I did, twice!








🔎 Reflections of a Runaway Bride (Jen's "AI assisted" Real-Life Reflections spanning 67yrs)













🔎 Time Travel What if we could age backwards, return to our youth, relive the past?













🔎 Paris Bridal Photoshoot (Jen's "AI assisted" Fantasy)














🔎 Saddam - How our Paths were Destined to Cross










🔎 Age 67If we return to age 37 (Our Past & Future already known) What stories would we tell?















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